A Bank Holiday Experiment
We’ve all heard the sayings:
“A smile costs nothing”
“A smile says a thousand words”
But when you actually put it into practice, you realise they’re not just nice phrases… they’re spot on.
This really hit home for me over the May bank holiday weekend.
Saturday; Glorious sunshine. People were out, relaxed, smiling, saying hello… you could feel the good mood in the air.
Sunday; Grey, dull, rainy. Same streets, same people… completely different vibe. Heads down, eyes forward, very much “get from A to B” energy.
Monday; Not raining, but still a bit gloomy. So I thought… right, let’s experiment a little here.
On my dog walk, I made it my mission: eye contact, a warm smile and a big cheerful “morning!” to everyone I passed.
And do you know what? It worked. Every single time.
People who were moments away from walking straight past suddenly looked up. Some smiled straight away, others took a second… but every single person acknowledged it and responded.
There was a shift. A tiny one, but a noticeable one.
And here’s the interesting bit… it didn’t just affect them. It completely changed how I felt too.
There was a real sense of connection. Of kindness. Of just being human for a moment. It gave me a boost that lasted far longer than the walk itself.
Maybe some people found it a bit unexpected. Maybe a couple thought “what’s she so cheerful about?”… but for a brief moment in time, there was a connection. And that counts.
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